Server is only two and half months old, there is no chance to convince admins for merge. According to your posts, you don't mind playing High Five 3x, you are looking for PVP and high online. In this situation, you should maybe consider moving to 3x. There is a special event from 3-11 January - "Bonus Start" for new players who wants to catch up.
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